What was the social condition of a pregnant single woman in the late 1970s in England?

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My mum was 16 when I was born in 1976. I only know what she has told me (she has sadly now passed away). She returned to complete her education 10 years later, but at the time there was no provision whatsoever for her to complete it.

Friends avoided her at all costs (walking across the street to get away from her), she had very little say in what happened to her in hospital (being refused pain medication at one point and being told she was a 'silly little girl' and she should just put up with pain and 'this is what happens when you are naughty').

She did marry my Dad and they did stay together but I think her treatment at the time made her very unsure of her own power in situations she found herself in and she rarely stood up for herself with anyone. She was a lovely, bright, intelligent woman. What she went through would have crushed a lesser person, but she came back fighting for my brother and I and we have very fond memories of her as a mother.

I can totally see how a single mother might be coerced into giving a baby up. It was only as she was married this did not happen to her.

As a footnote, I also remember an experience in the early 1990s with a school friend who was forced to have an abortion against her will. It seems that attitudes take a very long time to evolve.

Hope this helps.

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Your situation describes not only a single mother, but a very young single mother. So we should first note that teenage pregnancy was much more common in 1970, and even though the abortion act of '67 had reduced the number of mothers who carried the baby to term, the number of teenage mothers was over 3 times higher than it is now. (source 1) [This is sometimes attributed to mobile phones - teenage girls now would rather stay in and chat on their mobile. This is at best only partly true.]

She would have been aware of the possibility of abortion, whether she would consider this would depend on her upbringing and beliefs.

A mother of 17 would likely have already finished her education. It would have been normal for most people to finish school by the age of 16. Unless she was an exceptional student she would be more likely to be in some form of training or apprenticeship. It would have been normal for her to be required to leave. Many women, even respectable and married women, were sacked (or required to resign) when they became pregnant (source 2)

Whether she could talk to her family would depend on her relationship with her family I don't think there is single answer that could apply here.

Mother and Baby homes certainly still existed and would continue to do so well after the 1970s. Adoption reach a peak in '68 and was now dropping (partly due to the abortion act). She would have been under pressure to put the baby up for adoption. Alternatively she could choose to have the baby raised as her sibling, or perhaps adopted by an older sister to raise as the girl's niece. (source 3)

Shame and stigma would still exist, but less than in the 1950s. Of course young mothers still face shame today (see recent questions on the IPS stack exchange). However, there is more support for teenage mothers now, and as noted, far fewer teens are now getting pregnant.

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