Can our own spiritual gifts be given to others?

Regarding Ministry Callings and Gifts

If God has not first given such impartation to you i.e. "gift" as being your calling, NO man can impart any spiritual gift to you without it being the will of God.

Paul conveyed the confirmation of such given by God, he (Paul) is not God and did not have the right to give what is not given first by God. Otherwise, it would be like someone saying I don't want to be this color make me of a different race.

Jeremiah1:5 "Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations."

God has already appointed what we are gifted with and what is our calling in ministry is. We as Christians need to pray and seek out the matter instead of kicking against the goad to be like other, a round peg in a square hole. Too many people are walking around calling themselves Apostles, and Prophets when they can't even balance their checkbooks, nor know who much is even in their account.

1 Corinthians 12 indicates in a number of passages that the gifts can only be given according to God's will - and His only (I'll cite 3). There are some indications as well that not everyone will have one of these gifts.

Mormonism, as well as some Charismatics and WoF teachers (all based on my experience with both FLDS/LDS as well as frequent interaction with Charismatics/WoF), teaches these gifts can be imparted with the laying of hands or made manifest through baptism. Important to note, however, that a very large majority of these focus on the speaking of tongues, and (from a Linguists perspective) many do not.

1 Cor 12:11 (Concerning Spiritual Gifts)

"All these are empowered by one and the same Spirit, who apportions to each one individually has He wills."

12:18

"But as it is, God arranged the members in the body, each one of them, as He chose."

12:27-28

Now you are the body of Christ and individually members of it. And God has appointed in the church first apostles, second prophets, third teachers, then miracles, then gifts of healing, helping, administrating, and various kinds of tongues.

The Apostles, yes, were given the gift to pass on the Spiritual Gifts - and this, too, was a Gift from the Lord Himself:

Acts 8 we see a man try to use money to pay the Apostles to lay there hands on him, to which Peter replies, in verse 20:

But Peter said unto him, "Thy money perish with thee, because thou hast thought that the gift of God may be purchased with money."

We see, through Scripture, that the gifts can only be made manifest by God's will. The Apostles, under very special command (Jesus, the Lord in the flesh), were able to impart these gifts by laying their hands on people.

Most, if not all, Pentecostal and Charismatic denominations, churches and para-church ministries believe that, while Christ is the ultimate giver of every spiritual gift through the ministry of the Holy Spirit, humans can be intermediary agents in the transmission of these gifts.

This is according to their understanding of the biblical doctrine of 'Laying on of hands' (cf. Hebrews 6:2) and wider pneumatological issues.

A (possibly large, but difficult to define) subset of these groups, believe in a distinct nuance of this doctrine called 'transference of anointing' which in most formulations is a similar but not exact match for 'giving your own spiritual gifts for others'.

The similarities are that the gift in operation from the receiver can bear striking characteristics of the gift in operation of the transmitter; the differences being that not everything associated with the gift can be imparted that way - particularly the experience of operation of the transmitter as well as their character etc. - and any sense of 'commodifying' the Holy Spirit would (or at least should) be denied - it is still Christ who ultimately determines who receives what, not us and receiving is by grace through faith - any mechanical aspects of the process are subordinate to these overiding principles.

Frequently, the concept is not limited to just the laying on of hands, but also transference via mere proximity as well as objects and places - the main issue seems to be some contact point as a faith trigger for the recipient.

While there are many that regard this as false doctrine (example), even equating it with witchcraft in some instances, there is a certain level of biblical support for it:

For this reason I remind you to fan into flame the gift of God, which is in you through the laying on of my hands - 2 Timothy 1:6 ESV

And God was doing extraordinary miracles by the hands of Paul, so that even handkerchiefs or aprons that had touched his skin were carried away to the sick, and their diseases left them and the evil spirits came out of them. - Acts 19:11-12 ESV

(cf. also Elisha & Elijah, the woman with the issue of blood, Peter's shadow, Ananias - an ordinary believer - laying hands on Paul)

Here is a site where many aspects of the teaching associated with 'transference of anointing' are summarized.