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Is there any way I can personally ask for the home office (UK) to explain their decision to give me a 10 year ban for deception?
Don't do that. Don't try to do that. Don't even think about doing that.
I feel for you: I understand that you are frustrated and feel treated unfairly, but it's best to leave your emotions out of it and get professional help. Sorry, but you already have made a lot of mistakes, and chances are you will make more if you try to tackle this on your own.
Your best shot to get this straightened out is to have a competent lawyer. Any further interaction with the Home Office should be carefully scrutinized and planned BEFORE it happens.