When in a window seat on a plane, how do I deal with people who want the shade closed?

If you go to some air focused boards, you will be told basically, if you have the window seat, the shade is yours to control and no one really can make you close it.

However, please be aware that the bright light is a nuisance to many passengers who are trying to sleep, watch a video or who are in a direct line from the window.

If claustrophobia is the problem have you considered an exit row or bulkhead aisle? Even in the main cabin, there is quite a bit of space around you. It's also much easier to get up and roam around, though don't do that too much or you'll be in the FA's way.

Buy or otherwise obtain an inexpensive sleeping mask, still in its packaging. Then, you can have the following conversation:

"Would you mind putting down the window shade?"

"Actually, I would. I suffer from terribly from claustrophobia and I get nauseated and start vomiting if the shade is down."

"Oh, but I'm trying to sleep."

"Huh. I know, here use this." and give him the sleeping mask.

Now you have put yourself out for his convenience and solved the only problem he claims to have. Since it's brand new, he cannot complain about its hygiene. Only a real piece of work would persist, but if he does, suggest he ask the stewardess to move him.

This is a bit more work, but once onboard (or you've flown the airline's plane type before), identify a seat where the window is set back closer to your seat, or is slightly behind the seat in front of you. That is, you're trying to identify one where it will be partially blocked and won't interfere with your seat mates as much. If you're not in that row, see if there's a person without a companion there and if he or she would switch rows with you.

Because both seats are windows, your odds of swapping are better than average.

Another solution is whether you can keep it partially open. I seem to remember that Emirates' A380 shades open from the top, so you can still get a good view without opening the shade completely.

This may sound a bit harsh, but if people need darkness to sleep when traveling, it is up to them to ensure that. Eyemasks are the common technique.

If I'm at a window then I will have it open or shut as I want. That's why I have the window.

If I'm at the aisle I'm there so I can gain the benefits an aisle seat gives me.

And of course cabin crew instructions override all others.

Much like the passenger who wants to recline their seat, the right belongs to the person with the controls - in this case the window seat person. - however, that person should still be a considerate human being.

If you want a look outside, that's fine. However if passengers next to you are trying to sleep - on an overnight flight where you experience a horizon sunrise shining in, then it's best to not keep it open for hours at a time.

If you want a seat that 'allows' this, obviously on a full plane you're likely to always have seat mates, but I've found often you can move to a row with fewer people. Also on some planes, at the back by the toilets there's an exit door with a window, I've used that to look out of sometimes, as it doesn't disturb other passengers. I've heard of people have staff move them on from there though, so your experience may vary.

Also remember that even if you have no seatmates, on a dimmed-cabin flight, one open window at sunrise is really noticeable to almost everyone around you - it's really, really bright!

Rule of thumb - if the cabin lights are off that usually indicates it's the designated 'sleeping time', and you should probably keep shades closed for most of this time.

Generally, if you want freedom to get up and walk around, you pick an aisle seat, and if you want the control of the window and window view, you pick the window. However, consideration applies - and if a fellow passenger asks you to please close it, unless there's something you're really really wanting to look at, it's worth closing. To be a nice person, if for no other reason. However, in your case for claustrophobia, you could also explain it to them, or just simply refuse - or perhaps offer to put a blanket over you and the window to try and reduce the light hitting them.