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To answer the last part i.e. "my mind is calm but filled with songs and memories that I like but are not related to the task I am working on and as a result get me distracted from it. As such I wanted to make my thoughts silent at will so I can keep focusing on tasks which make me less happy than my thoughts do."
I wish I could just answer your question -- "what meditation practice improves my ability to concentrate on work?" -- without having to refer to other bits of Buddhist doctrine which you might not like.
However ...
I happen to know that the suttas do warn against music, for example -- saying that music can become an obsession, that when it ends you might obsessively seek more of it. Not that it's forbidden to laypeople, but still -- that can be a consequence. In fact that (i.e. to be "catchy") is maybe the point of music, that's (by definition) the kind of music people listen to and remember.
More sweeping/genrally than that, it warns against "delighting" in "pleasant" experiences, because you may become "attached" to those experiences.
It's possible that what you're describing -- distracted by pleasant memories -- is a symptom of that.
I think that some of the Buddhist doctrine (e.g. in the suttas) includes something like:
I might say something about "seclusion" too but who knows what -- and being energetic or active, determined, e.g. doing a variety of only good things and practising well or constantly, instead of only passively consuming sensual experience.
In that way, "focusing on tasks which make me less happy than my thoughts do" is maybe no longer a problem:
It's hard to know what to reference as related, since I don't know how much technical vocabulary you understand. But for some further reference, see for example Improving Sati-SampajaΓ±Γ±a (situative wisdom) which was posted recently.
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sure here is the way to set the citta into right samadhi, contrary to whatever wrong samadhi you have developed, with this sutta https://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/sn/sn55/sn55.040.than.html, it is first physical seclusion, which means less distraction, fewer objects cognized, then it is mano which has piti and the kaya has passambhati then sukhaαΉ vediyati, and the citta has sukhha then samadhi.
the way to get piti with mano is to sort out your Vitakkas with sati, ie satisampajanna, Satipatthana, ie knowing when a Vitakka arises, then judging it as either wholesome or not, and knowing when it vanishing , and if it is unwholesome dropping it by thinking of something good [instead of letting the bad thought proliferate] and when you have wholesome thoughts, you get glad to have wholesome thoughts. Same thing with feelings and perceptions.
In other words, when you have good thoughts, you are happy and when you are happy the citta is calm and enters samadhi.
Of course, before that, you must learn what is wholesome and not wholesome, because puthujjanas do not know what is good and what is bad, and buddha explains that here https://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/mn/mn.009.ntbb.html