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Since you overstayed the 90 days you were admitted for when you entered on VWP, you are not eligible to use the VWP anymore. You will have to apply for a visa to go to the United States again. Since you intend to go to the US to immigrate, you will not be able to go on a visitor visa or most other kinds of nonimmigrant visas. Your US-citizen spouse needs to petition you to immigrate and you will do consular processing in your home country for an immigrant visa.