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TLSContact was wrong. If what they told you was correct, then people who get married in the UK and change their name would be immobile for lack of an identity.
This is a common issue and to handle it, the person submits...
If TLScontact did not follow this convention, you can still apply either directly or through another agent.
If your husband has exercised treaty rights in the past, you can benefit from the EEA family route and get a residence card. Otherwise you will need to use the Schengen route.