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I can only speak from a Wesleyan-Arminian perspective. A classical Arminian may have a slightly different understanding.
TL;DR: God is sovereign in that he sets all the boundaries, both in putting each of us in a particular time and place, and in making a way that we might be saved and enjoy eternity with him. But God also gives us the freedom to turn away from him and the grace to turn toward him.
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I would say that yes, through free will a man can accept God's offer of grace and salvation. I believe God gives us the freedom to choose so that when we do choose to accept His grace, it is a conscious, humble, obedient choice. That does not mean that God cannot force someone to accept his grace, but I'm not sure there is any evidence of God doing that.
Titus 2:11 (NIV) says "For the grace of God has appeared that offers salvation to all people." If God's grace is offered to all people, then why haven't all people who know of God's grace accepted it? How many atheist biblical scholars are there that despite knowledge of His grace will still spend eternity in Hell?
God values our obedience. Throughout the Bible we are also called to "walk in obedience". We are not made to obey, but asked to obey in the same way we are asked to believe in Jesus Christ and accept salvation.
1 Samuel 15:22 NIV
22 But Samuel replied:
“Does the LORD delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices
as much as in obeying the LORD?
To obey is better than sacrifice,
and to heed is better than the fat of rams.
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I would say your argument is entirely backwards. If the Lord has total sovereignty, then he can choose to let humans decide for themselves whether to accept salvation if that is what He wishes. Saying that God cannot possibly let humans freely choose whether or not to accept salvation is saying that God does not have total sovereignty.
The question is merely what God wishes. Nothing limits him from arranging things as he wishes. His sovereignty is not a limit on what he can do or not do. If he wishes to let humans decide whether to accept salvation, then that is what will happen. If he does not wish to let us do that, then that will not happen. That is what it means to be sovereign.
And, as Bruce Alderman points out, the Bible says God "desires everyone to be saved". So if God didn't leave the decision to us, everyone would be saved.