I doubt this has anything to do with customs.
‘Thank you’ in English means acceptance, whereas in Polish – denial.
If someone asks you if you want something and you say ‘thank you’ as an answer in English, it means you want it, but, in Polish, it means that you don’t.
Consider:
Would you like a cup of coffee?
Thank you.
In English: I want the coffee.
In Polish: I don’t want the coffee.
Also, the Polish phrase for ‘I’ll pass’, when translated into English word for word, would be ‘I’ll thank’.
The waiters in Poland are obliged to bring you all the rest back but you may say: “thank you, the rest is not needed” or “thank you the rest is for you”.
In Poland only few restaurants include the service charge in the bill (and usually it is stated in the menu) but you can always ask if it is already included.
This is the case in most Central European countries, surely in Czech Rep. and Slovakia as well.
The reason is that, usually, you tip when you pay, so it goes like this:
Customer: Bill, please.
Waiter (brings the bill): It’s 158, sir.
Customer (gives 200 bank note): One hundred seventy.
Waiter (gives back 30): Thank you, sir.
Customer: Thank you.
The waiter does not come twice, so if you want to get something back, you better say the price you’re willing to pay. Of course, if you don’t say anything, they’ll give you the exact change (42 in this case) and you can leave them the tip from this.
I would suggest to accomodate to the local custom and unless they bring the bill in “an envelope”, say how much you want to pay immediately.
Yes, but it is not very strict rule.
Obviously if you give 100zł note, paying lets say 50zł bill, no one will assume that you’re leaving that much of a tip even if you happened to say thank you. However, if your bill is 90zł and you give 100zł saying thank you, it’s more than likely that this will be interpreted as keep the change. General practice is that you say thank you as the last thing; thus by saying that when giving the money, you’re indicating that you don’t expect further interaction with the waiter.
BTW, same also applies in taxis and hairdressers.
There is such custom, but it’s not very strict rule and even many people in Poland doesn’t know about it (but waiters probably do know).
It’s quite natural, because when you give money and say “thank you” (“dziękuję” in polish) it looks like transaction is ended. But if you give money and say nothing, expecting for something, then it may look that you are waiting for a change. But you may expect that waiter will take change even if you don’t say “thank you”. That’s why some people say explicit how much tip they give and then waiter know how much change they would like to receive.
Generally in Poland tipping is not very established and many polish people never tip. Tipping is most popular exactly in restaurants.
Well, I think it is true 🙂 Not every time but it depends on the waiter. It happened to me also and I am Polish. So just in case, hold the ‘thank you’ for a while 😉
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