Meeting other people while traveling

As long term low budget traveller Anton Krotov remarked in one of his books, interactions with people are simply different if you don’t pay them for the interaction (as you would do when going to a hotel or taking a taxi). If you mainly use hitchhiking for transport and hospitality exchange for lodging you’re almost constantly meeting new people.

If you have the right mindset and are up for it, nothing beats hitchhiking for meeting the locals when in a foreign country.

It’s definitely not for everybody and it’s not without potential risks, probably moreso for females and younger people.

But it’s hard to beat for meeting people you would never meet otherwise, from all backgrounds. You never know when you’ll get invited for dinner, invited to stay over, or become lifetime friends.

But you’ll certainly get a unique view of the culture from the inside.

It’s always easier to meet other travellers whilst travelling. Locals going out in their home environment usually go with their friends and aren’t really interested or ‘open’ to be joined by a stranger since it requires extra effort. That said the best places are pubs or bars with share tables.

I am German and don’t think it’s too hard to meet Germans in a Beer Garden. They are friendly especially after a couple of beers. Try and approach some ppl that look approachable and friendly and ask some basic questions.. like what’s the best beer here! I know it sounds silly but since Germany has literally thousands of breweries you are very likely to start a lively debate at the table..LOL.

Whilst travelling I usually sit close to others on adjoining tables and I keep alert. For example, yesterday in Thamel the guy next to me had problems with his internet connection the restaurant provided him. The waiter gave me a different connection which worked so I shared this info with him.. 20 minutes conversation later he invited me to join them for dinner.

Be alert, and make yourself available by sitting close to people you think approachable and don’t be afraid to ask for help or information..even if you don’t need it, it’s a sure way to get going.

Hope that helps 🙂

Unfortunately, this is not easy to answer, and highly dependent on the country. As discussed here for example in the context of young people for Japan. You will have to specify what type of people you want to meet and in which country you are to get a good answer with concrete points to follow on this.

Some general pointers that will drastically improve your success to improve this:

• meet people with similar interests, so you have something to talk about.
• be prepared to invite people for a drink at least.
• plan ahead. Get in contact as much as possible before your trip.

More concretely:

• Social Venues: Bars, concerts, festivals. This of course depends on your ability to socialize. If you are not good at chatting up people in your own country in such locations, you might have the same issues abroad.
• Interest groups: If you have special interests such as photography, comics, specific sports and a reasonable experience with such topics, you can try to find clubs, associations beforehand online and ask if you can meet some likeminded people at your destination and invite them for a beer. The further away you come from, the more likely it is they will invite you with open arms.
• Social networks, industry associations etc: There are places like meetup and interest groups that are more formalized that allow you to meet people. Again, you would have to plan ahead, but a high chance that you meet people. Other organizations such as Rotary clubs are also always a good thing to join if you travel a lot and want to meet people.

If you are only out to meet someone for a single ad-hoc lunch or dinner, you are in a completely different field of course. My strategy is to go to a restaurant where you can sit at a counter, so you can at least talk with the chef behind it, and better even to the people sitting next to you. Also restaurants that have a large community-table are good for this. Last but not least, checking if there is a soccer/whatever-match and going to a sports-bar with big screens is a good way to meet other people and eat in a more social environment helps a lot.

If you travel often for business to the same town, it helps a lot to always go to the same places. It might be more boring food-wise, but you will realize that the guests also come back to the same place and get to be known and know people. That also would require that you avoid hotel bars at all cost since there you will only meet other random people that are unlikely to be back there when you return.