Is it rude to pay tips in Iran?

6/16/2017 9:40:12 AM

Paying tips to the waiter or the hotel staff is always appreciated and never considered offensive in Iran. Although I would expect most waiters to accept the tip, be advised there is a complicated system among Iranians called Taarof (Tarof, Taroof), of which any tourist visiting Iran should be aware. Read this post to get a grasp of it:

Iranian Taxi Driver: “You are such a nice man, no need to pay”
Spanish Traveller: “Okay, thanks!”

This is a huge mistake in Iran. There is a rule here called Taroof
which is a very complex system of saving face. Taroof dictates that
gifts and services are offered even if the person offering can’t
afford it. To avoid loosing[sic] face, one should deny an offer 3 times,
which gives the person who’s offering ample time to back out. This
helps to make his generosity seem truly genuine, even if he couldn’t
afford it in the first place.

In summary, people in Iran may offer something valuable to you while they don’t mean it, and vice versa, they may refuse to accept something valuable while they really wish that you insisted, so that they could accept it! So when you offer tip to someone and they refuse to accept, just keep insisting for like two or three times to make sure they are not Taarofing!

And I doubt there is a difference between tipping males and females. Would females act differently when tipped?

I don’t think there would be any difference. And also note that most waiters are male here.

6/15/2017 7:10:45 PM

In the past it was not common to pay a tip but now it’s okay, especially in Tehran, the capital city of Iran. Of course, if you want to tip a waitress, you should be a little more careful because it’s rare still, but it doesn’t mean that you can’t tip a waitress.

It’s easy to tip; go to the server, thank them for good service and give the tip! I personally put the tip on palm of my hand, then go to the person, thank them for the good service and then extend the hand that I had put the tip in.

By the way, don’t worry about how to pay the tip at all. My people are very very kind and they will give you a smile and thank you for the tip.

So it’s not rude to pay tip here ! 😉

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