How to meet my Persian girlfriend in Iran and have privacy while not being married?

12/18/2017 12:55:58 PM

Iran has a really tough situation regarding the matter, though in recent years its strict laws are gradually fading away.

The most simple legal solution is for you to marry her (more of an arrangement between you two to avoid the problems).

It may seem pretty out of hand for you at first. But marriage has a
simple and routine process and it barely would take longer than an
hour for you to sign the documents and be done with it. In case of
later finding out you don’t want to continue your relationship she
can simply sign some papers and get a divorce. The process is nothing
close to what you have to go through in the western countries.

Pros:

  1. You wouldn’t need to be afraid of anything and could openly go around with her.
  2. Experience a true relationship, a sneaky one would force both of you into subsidiary matters.
  3. You’ll avoid anything harmful to happen to your relationship by being found out by the gov or her family.
  4. If you’ve seen her before twice and you’re that serious to travel to Iran because of her, maybe it’s time to meet her parents.

Cons:

  1. She has to probably tell the matter to her family. That depends on her parents and their relationship. But it’s probably the case And it’s not very easy for girls in Iran to do that. But in case she decides to hide the matter from them. It’s totally OK and you can still marry together without any problem.
  2. she’ll have to always point at the relationship she had with you through at her life because of your name on her ID docs.

You can later on have a real marriage when you both made up your mind about it.

12/10/2017 12:21:12 AM

Book from local hosts maybe? Although, haven’t tried it myself while living there, I believe they have less restrictions.

Furthermore, going to the northern parts of Iran is definitely a good idea, if you intend to just see her (and not the country and its main tourist attractions) while in a more relaxed environment. Rasht (my hometown) is indeed famous for having the most open minded people in Iran; and you can somehow extend that to the other neighboring cities – Shiraz and Tehran are also doing well in ratings.

Back to my suggestion let me give you an example on how to hunt such places; if you drive from Rasht towards Anzali (or any other famous city in the Caspian Sea like: Ramsar, Kelardasht, Chalous, ..), you will often see people standing by the side of the street holding a board that says: Villas for rent – or you can find similar villas on the internet websites like these: 1, 2, 3; they are in Persian but I bet your girlfriend can help you with that – just bear in mind that you have to be more attentive renting a place in this way 🙂

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